Amazing parents’ evening

My younger son is a highly intelligent boy, who has always been a long way ahead of his peers. Now he’s at a grammar school which is one of the top state schools in the country and only takes the absolute cleverest kids. And I wasn’t really sure if he was way ahead of his peers any more.

He doesn’t talk that much about what he’s learned at school. I hear a lot more about PE and rugby practise than I hear about academic lessons. I see textbooks, exercise books and worksheets around his room and I see him do a little bit of homework (they don’t get much), but I’m really in the dark about what he’s doing or how he’s getting on.

His school teaches the year 8 curriculum, but at a higher level to other schools.

His most recent school report looked very positive. Every subject is divided into three elements and they can be at expected level (for their school, not a ‘normal’ year 8), above expected level or below expected level.

Just over 75% of his work was at above expected level, with nothing below expected and no subjects entirely at expected level. Only French and English had two two elements at expected level. Geography, German, maths, music, PE and RE were all above expected level across the board. His effort for all subjects was at expected level. Should it have been higher? No, apparently there are usually only one or two kids in each class working at above expected effort and one or two working below it.

At parents’ evening, all of his teachers said what a pleasant boy he is to have in class. Many of them said he contributed well to class discussions and some said he could try to contribute a little bit more. In some classes he’s very confident, in others, particularly German and French, he lacks a little bit of confidence. They all said his written work was excellent.

His English teacher didn’t say he needed to read more (result – although he totally does) and said he’s very good at reading  out loud in class. I wasn’t even bothered about seeing the RE teacher, but she was so full of praise for him. Apparently he gets through his work more quickly than the others, while still doing it properly. He has good ideas and a really good understanding of the concepts they’re talking about. She has seen him grow in confidence in recent weeks and says she would have given him above expected effort grade if she was to write his report now.

We never knew he was good at art until he went to grammar school, but he has some amazing ideas. His art teacher loves his ideas and the way he has no fear about making something really ambitious that nobody else is doing. Apparently he has a really good understanding of art, art history and artists. Who knew?

Maths will be set in year 9, with just under half of the year group in the top set. His maths teacher has no doubt he will be in the top set.

Because they’re working at such a high level, they’ve tackled a couple of GCSE papers in class. For those of you who don’t have kids in years 10 or 11, GCSEs are changing. From this year (just English and maths for current year 11 and everything for current year 10), papers will be graded from 9 to 1. 9 is the equivalent of an A**, with 8 an A*, 7 an A, 6 a B, right down to 9 a G.

In history, my clever year 8 boy had come out with a 6.

And in science? He’d done four papers – two with an 8 and two with a 9. That’s higher than his brother who is actually doing GCSEs in a few weeks.

I think that’s confirmed for me that my high-flying boy is still a high-flying boy. He might be at a top school, but he’s still right at the top of the class.

What an amazing parents’ evening.

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Author: Sarah Mummy

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  1. How wonderful is that – you must be so super proud. I am not surprised his art is shining through though there are some very inspirational works from pupils around the school.

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    • Thanks very much, I’m really proud! There is some amazing art at the school, but I never thought he would be good at it! I guess he never had much chance to try at primary school.

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  2. That is awesome. Way to go and no wonder you are proud. Great news xx

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    • Thanks very much! I’m so proud of him 🙂 x

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  3. Holey s*** 9s and 8s are amazing. Well done to him!! Does that mean he could take a whole bunch of them super early?

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    • Thanks very much! They’re amazing, aren’t they? They don’t do exams early at his school. They just do them at the right time and everyone pretty much comes out with the top grades!

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  4. Oh gosh that’s incredible, you must be so proud. How amazing to still be performing above expectations even in such a top school. And to be told that he’s trying hard and he’s a pleasant person is even better.

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    • Thanks very much! I always hoped he would still be near the top of the class, so it’s great to hear that he is. And definitely good to hear that he’s a nice person to have around too 🙂 x

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  5. What an awesome night you had a parent’s evening! No wonder you’re so proud – it’s lovely not just to hear about their academic achievements but how they’re socially fitting in
    Really lovely post

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    • Thanks very much! I just had to write it as I was so proud! x

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  6. I would expect nothing less from your genius child! So reassuring to hear it from the teacher’s mouth isn’t it? Well done that boy. x

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    • Thanks very much! I guess I would expect nothing less too, but it is definitely reassuring to actually hear it from the teachers 🙂 x

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  7. Good on him. Sounds like he’s really thriving there, and good that he’s not having to totally bust a gut to do as well as he’s doing. Funny how he’s really doing well as unexpected classes like RS and art.

    Thanks for linking up to #schooldays

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    • Thanks very much! It’s remarkable how little homework he does, but I think as they’re all so bright that get through the curriculum quickly! The RE and art were a pleasant surprise. I used to be good at art as a kid, but had no idea he was!

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