The broken toe and the drama performance

There’s never a good time to break your toe, but when my son broke his toe on the day of his school drama performance, that felt like a really bad time.

Of course, he really, really wanted to do the drama performance. He’d been working hard on it for the past couple of weeks. But, as he could barely walk, he was going to struggle to dance.

He reluctantly agreed to miss it that day, but was most definitely going to do the two performances the following day. He set his alarm for 7 as usual, got straight out of bed as usual. And then realised his toe felt much worse.

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He really, really wanted to go to school. And he really, really wanted to go to his drama performance. But he couldn’t even summon up the strength to get into the shower. There was no way he was going to be able to walk round school, then do two performances.

So he reluctantly stayed at home and even had a couple of hours’ sleep.

But he was still determined to do his drama performance. I suggested maybe he should just do the matinee performance, but of course he wanted to do the evening performance too. So, against my better judgement, I dosed him up with Calpol and took him to school. I would be back an hour later to watch his matinee.

He’d told me exactly where he would be on the stage and for the first time EVER I got a front row seat. I’m usually at the back. Behind a pillar. Seriously, I think people must camp out to get front seats at a school performance.

He was in two musical numbers – one at the start of performance and one at the end. He was also one of a small number of kids to play a statue. He’d been exactly right about where he’d be on the stage. He was right in front of me.

In previous school performances, I’d always detected a lack of confidence, or maybe a hit of embarrassment. He always looked slightly awkward when standing on stage and never opened his mouth quite wide enough to sing. There was none of that. He had a really good stage presence. Just like his sister in the panto, he never went out of character or fidgeted. He looked so good and strong as a statue.

I hoped to find him in the interval. The very first thing I heard as I stepped out of the hall was a child’s voice asking my son if his foot hurt. He told me he’d been trodden on twice during his musical number, but he was on a high. He was limping along, but so happy to be there.

I went into the toilet and shed a couple of tears. I felt so sad that he’d broken his toe and was in pain, but so happy that he’d been able to do the performance and that he’d enjoyed it so much. When he’d got up that morning, I really didn’t think he’d make it. To be honest, I wasn’t sure he’d even get to school for the last few days of term. But he wanted to do it, and he did it.

And did he want to go home after the matinee? No way! He was staying at school for the evening performance. I was so proud of my boy for his dedication in carrying on, despite the pain.

Author: Sarah Mummy

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  1. Ah, a broken toe. I know a thing or two about broken toes! Can be v painful. What an achievement. And he was stood on as well. Great stuff indeed.

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    • Thanks very much! It really knocked him for six for a few days, but he soon bounced back!

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  2. Well done to your son for carrying on despite being in agony! You must be so proud of him. I hope he’s feeling better and looking forward to some well-deserved time off from school :o)

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    • He’s all better now, thank goodness! He ended up making a very quick recovery.

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    • Thanks very much. I’m really proud! It would have been so easy not to take part. x

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  3. Oh that’s amazing, a huge well done to him. You must have been so proud of the whole thing, especially managing it with a broken toe.
    Nat.x

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    • Thanks very much, he did brilliantly! I really thought the toe was going to stop him taking part. x

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  4. Aw well done to him for such tenacity and drive wanting to do his drama performance even though he was in so much pain. No wonder you shed a tear. And did you get an award for getting a front seat ? And yes people do camp out for the coveted spot lol. Always makes me giggle when I turn up at school fairly early for a performance and there is about 20 people already there x

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    • Thanks very much! People arriving early for everything at school drives me mad! It’s just impossible to get to the front! x

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    • Thanks very much, they certainly do! 🙂

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  5. Wow that is an achievement. He really was determined to be in his drama performance. It sounds like he enjoyed it but I’m sure he was in pain. I hope he got to rest the following day.

    Thanks for linking up with Small Steps Amazing Achievements :0)
    x

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