School sports day

Love ’em or hate ’em, most people have got an opinion on school sports days. They should be more competitive or not competitive at all, they’re not fair on the kids who aren’t good at sports, they don’t give the kids who are good at sports enough chance to shine… Schools literally can’t win.

Except, in my humble opinion, I think our school does win at sports day. I think it totally rocks. Because it’s got the balance just right.

Your kid not a fast runner? Don’t worry! Because our school sports day starts with a whole hour of non-competitive sport. There’s 28 activities and every child has a sheet which the teachers/ volunteers supervising the activities sign. Every signature on that sheet is worth a point for the child’s house. So it doesn’t matter if they can’t win the sprint – or that they’re not picked for the sprint – because if they can catch a ball eight times, shoot a hockey ball at a goal, skip, hula hoop, jump hurdles or run an obstacle course, they can get points for their house.

It’s also fun for parents, who get to follow their kids round the course, take pictures, encourage them, hand them their water, laugh along with them…

Then it gets SERIOUS.

The kids all sit in their houses and there are two kids from each house in each race (theoretically one child from each class, but it didn’t alway quite work out like that). I’d been asking my daughter what race she was in and she kept telling me that she didn’t know or that she was in the relay. My daughter is the second fastest girl in her year. Unfortunately for her, the fastest runner is in her house and her class. And runners were picked when she was rehearsing for Oliver. I checked the programme and was shocked to discover she was in the egg and spoon. Not the relay, not the sprint. The egg and spoon.

‘Do you know what you’re in?’ I mouthed to her across the field

‘The relay,’ she said.

‘No, the egg and spoon.’

Her face fell. As mine had done. I never knew I was competitive before I had kids, but I’ve learned I’m a competitive mum. Only in the sense of knowing what my kids can achieve and wanting them to achieve their potential. I don’t push them beyond that, but if I know my daughter is fast enough to be in the sprint and the relay, I don’t like to see her left out. To be honest, it’s not even doing the team any favours. If the team want to win (which they do, you should hear the volume of those kids cheering), they should put the right kids in the right races. Anyway, there’s more to this story yet…

My son was running in the year 5 boys’ sprint. My boy has always been a fast runner, but I realise he must have got faster over the last year as he’s being picked for more races and doing better in them. Out of eight boys, he came second. He really gave it his all. His start was quicker than at the school athletics competition and he wasn’t far off first. I know he did his absolute best, so I was really pleased for him.

Then it was time for the (sigh) egg and spoon race. My daughter stood there, all tall, poised and graceful, with her egg (ball) balanced on her spoon. Surely with her balance from years of dance training, she would have this one in the bag? She started off in the lead, walking quickly and carefully. But then she dropped her ball. She started falling behind. More balls were dropped. My daughter dropped hers again. She was coming last! She picked up her ball and strode confidently and carefully over the line in third. Not our family’s greatest ever sporting achievement, but she was happy.

There was a kerfuffle going on with the year 3 girls’ relay. There were five kids there for my daughter’s team, including one whose name wasn’t down in the programme. Then my husband watched as the teachers asked if anyone else would like to join the relay team. He had never seen a hand go up as fast as my daughter’s. There still appeared to be five runners rather than the required four. I feared she would be cut again. But, no, she was on the team, running in third place.

Her team got off to a brilliant start. The second runner ran well and then my daughter. Oh my word! Her long legs were really striding out. She was going for it. And how did that little girl running fourth run so fast? They won the race as the other teams were just starting their fourth leg! I was seriously proud and my daughter was buzzing at their achievement.

The year 5 boys’ relay team didn’t get off to such a good start. When the baton was handed to my son, running in fourth position, they were definitely coming last. But look at that boy go! He overtook two boys and his team came in second. I was so proud! But was he pleased with himself? No, because another metre or two and he would have won it!

It was shaping up to be a pretty good sports day for our family. There was just one more race. I may have worn my Converse instead of my flip flops and I may have tested my jeans when I got dressed in the morning to see which pair had the most give in them. It would be too obvious to rock up to school in my joggers and my running trainers, so I kept it low key.

It’s been three long years since they last ran a mums’ race. And, needless to say, in that time I haven’t got any younger. Many of the parents there today weren’t there three years ago. Three years ago, I came second, four years ago, I came third. Will I ever win? Time is not on my side.

The mums’ race was less popular than ever, with just four mums lining up to race. I’m a runner, but I’m not a sprinter. And I don’t ever run in jeans and Converse. I did my best, but I just couldn’t win it. I came second, but I’m pleased to say the other two were some distance behind me. I think my kids were proud…

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At the end of sports day, there were just 12 points separating the top team from the bottom team – points from winning races, from coming second, third or fourth, and from taking part in the non-competitive events at the start of the day.

My kids’ house came third, but you could call it second, because for the first time ever, there was a tie for first.

It had been another successful sports day. For the school, but also for my family.

Mum of Three World

Author: Sarah Mummy

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  1. Your school sounds brilliant for sports day. A bit for everyone and a huge well done to your little girl for doing so well in the relay. And second in the mums is excellent 🙂

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  2. Thanks very much, it really is great 🙂 I think second is going to be as good as it ever gets!

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  3. Oh my goodness that made me laugh! It’s not about the winning you know?? Well, that’s what everyone says and it’s crap really isn’t it? Our sports day is similar to yours and I enjoyed it apart from getting very sunburnt and L, who hates sports day, spending a lot if the time in a strop or in tears. Our mums race is VERY competitive so I never join in for fear of embarrassing my sons. It sounds like you had a great day.

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    • Yep, it’s crap! Unless your kids aren’t good at sport I guess. Poor L, that can’t have been fun for him. Nobody ever wants to do our mums’ race – apart from me!

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    • Thanks very much, Susan, it was fab 🙂 x

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  4. That sounds like a brilliant sports day – we always enjoy our sports days and like yours it’s a fun stuff that everyone can take part in and then the serious relay race is at the end.
    I was disappointed there was no parents race this year though!

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    • It was fab, thanks. Good to hear you have a good one too. I was disappointed at no parents’ race last year. There was a teachers’ race for the first time ever this year 🙂

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  5. I struggle with Sports Day. Eldest loves all sports, the youngest, not so much. Now that they are at different schools, I resolve myself that thing 2 never comes first. Second or third. But boy do I cheer. Loudly. X

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    • Yay! I love cheering my kids on! I think it’s good to have the right expectations of your kids – you know what they’re capable of and you want them to achieve that. That’s all you can ever want from them I think. x

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  6. Ah I love hearing someone actually enjoying sports day. As you know, I can’t stand it! Sounds like your school do have it right though – a bit of healthy competition and fun for all the family too 🙂 My kids would actually hate to watch me running in the mums race – good job our school doesn’t have one!

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    • I can never understand you hating sports day, I always look forward to it! I’m pleased to say that my kids are perfectly happy to have me running in the mums’ race. It might help that they know I won’t show them up by losing really badly! Needless to say, the secondary school doesn’t have one – can you imagine the embarrassment?!

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  7. Goodness what a story. Had me on the edge of seat and licking my pencil ready to write cross letter to school about talented runners being left out of ‘proper’ races. Egg and spoon indeed. Usain wouldn’t have been made to do that!

    Here’s my cartoon take on Sports Day. We didn’t have a Mums race, or at least it was pouring down where I was so may have accidentally missed it. The Mum in front wouldn’t be you needless to say! Jo x

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    • Thanks, you made me laugh! Usain certainly wouldn’t have been made to do the egg and spoon! Off for a read of your post now 🙂

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  8. Sounds like a good mix for everyone. My daughter starts school in September, so I’ll wait and see what her Sports day holds!

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    • It will probably be hilarious – with kids going the wrong way, falling over, refusing to run, crying…

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  9. It does sound like a great school for sports day, more should do it like that. Well done to you and your daughter fr your races too x

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  10. That does sound like a very well balanced event. Love the picture of you and the other mums sprinting. Looks like a pretty serious competition there, makes me want to get up and take part… Let’s have a race some day!

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    • Yes! Let’s do it! Britmums Live next year! I’m not sure if everyone took it seriously, but I certainly did and I guess the woman in front did too.

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  11. Your school sounds great, ours is not so good at all. They sat all afternoon in the red hot sun to walk a egg and spoon race as they are told to go slow and keep it on the spoon!! wish we had a mums race, looks like fun 🙂

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  12. I am in the love camp at the moment for sports day. Well done for coming 2nd!!! Our school has a mass relay with various things in the 1st half where it’s a real team effort and so it doesn’t matter on ability. They even gave extra points to a team who had to deal with thunder flies all during their races and the entire school and spectators cheered when they did this as they had so many of the darn things to do deal with! #countrykids

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  13. That sounds like such a great sports day! I wish our school would do a mums race…That would be so much fun x

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  14. Sounds like the school have the balance right, my sons school is split into three teams and they ‘compete’ after a fashion doing a load of different kinds of events (sounds a bit like your non-competitive bit). The kids love it though, and interestingly not many parents seem to go… I had to miss it this year in fact!

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  15. I haven’t done an ‘official’ sports day yet, I don’t think the nursery one would really count. I love the way your school has a non-competitive portion to it’s day, this would have really suited me lol. Well done on coming second in the mum’s race. I better get fitter so I can take part in this race in the future x

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  16. Like I am reading a Lara Croft book. What a sporty post and I love every word. I always knew you can kick ass even on chucks =) Congrats! #countrykids

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