Happy birthday, 17 year old boy!

Seventeen years ago, a tiny baby boy popped into the world (‘popped’ after a very long labour). He was my first baby and suddenly I was a mum. That tiny baby became a gorgeous toddler. He became a big brother twice over. And then suddenly he was a teenager.

And now he’s just a year away from becoming an adult! How did that happen?

Everyone who knows my boy knows he is a character. He’s unique. We have a saying in our house – ‘X is just X’. And we all know what that means. He has a certain je ne sais quoi, which is different from anyone else we know. He can be frustrating and infuriating, but he is harmless and happy and never worries about anything. That’s not a bad way to be, is it?

Adults love him because he’s confident and talkative. He’s knowledgeable about politics and current affairs.

But teachers aren’t always quite as keen on him. Although my son has the ability to charm and cheek his way out of any situation. He thinks this ability will get him through his entire life. I suspect that he may need a few exam results to back it up, but what do I know?

Last year, he took the bold step of leaving his comprehensive school behind and joining the sixth form of a girls’ grammar school. And it’s the best thing he could have done. He is thriving at his new school. At his old school, he sailed under the radar. In a large comprehensive, he was a bit of a nobody. Not cool enough. Not sporty enough. Not clever enough. Not naughty enough. He’s the kind of kid who can easily get lost in a comprehensive. But boys at girls’ grammar schools don’t get lost.

He has made lots of friends and is able to be the person he really is. He doesn’t have to hide his quirks in case someone ‘cooler’ than him looks down on him and takes the p*ss. So he’s still not working quite as hard as he should, but I love the way he’s thrown himself into the social aspects of school life. He’s even taken on some responsibility as house captain and has to deliver assemblies and organise teams for sports day. He would never have done that at his old school.

My son started a part-time job at a local chip shop a few months ago. His boss says he’s a hard worker and I don’t doubt that for one minute. Working in a chip shop isn’t for everyone, but he enjoys the work, the banter with the customers and the money that comes with it. The money is spent mostly on coffee and clothes, with new packages arriving for him in the post most weeks.

My 17 year old boy has his own unique style, which his dad and siblings will ridicule from time to time. But I don’t mind it. He’s a teenager, he should be free to dress how he wants to dress. There is no rule book. Nor is there any ‘cool kid’ from school looking down on him and judging him. His style has definitely become quirkier now he’s at his new school.

After his terrible acne troubles of a couple of years ago, my son’s skin is almost clear, although he is back on a prescription lotion. He looks older than his years, and I suspect that is partly down to the acne ageing him. But he is a good looking boy and nobody could deny that.

My son goes to bed too late, gets up too late and leaves the house late in a disorganised mess with tie, shoelaces and bag flying every morning. He leaves a trail of destruction wherever he goes in the house. I suspect he will still be leaving towels on the bathroom floor in 20 years’ time.

But he’s my boy and I’m proud of him. Proud that he gets on so well with people. Proud that he can just be himself. Proud that he doesn’t let anything worry him.

Happy birthday, 17 year old boy!

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Author: Sarah Mummy

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  1. Happy birthday to your son…I hope he has a fab day.
    He sounds such a character. hehehe x

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    • Thanks very much! He’s a real character! And he’s got even more of a character since he moved to his new school. He is a one-off, bless him. x

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  2. What a lovely post! Happy Birthday to your boy. I already had such a good picture of what kind of person he is but this post just filled in the gaps. He certainly sounds unique, in a good way 🙂 Hope you’ve all had a lovely day. x

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    • Thanks very much! Unique in a good way sums him up perfectly. He had a great day as it was sports day and he’s the house captain! x

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  3. Aww what a lovely boy. Happy birthday to him. I hope he has the best day xx

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    • Thanks very much, he is a lovely boy! He had a lovely day. x

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  4. He sounds like an amazing young man and someone who isn’t afraid to do what he wants to do. I hope he had a fabulous birthday

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    • Thanks very much, he had a lovely day. He certainly isn’t afraid to do what he wants to do and I really admire him for that.

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  5. Ah I love this Sarah and happy belated birthday to him. He sounds a very well rounded teenager, and I love the fact he doesn’t follow the crowd. Eek another year and he will be an adult, and of course I will be looking to you to guide me through this stage with Morgan only being a year behind x

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    • Thanks very much! I love the fact that he doesn’t follow the crowd too. He’s very well rounded. If we could just get him to try a bit harder with his school work and leave slightly less mess around, he’d be almost perfect! x

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